This review is for the Luxe Neo 120 (White) Bidet which I have now been using for about 2 months (Due to time restraints it sat in the box for a while before I installed it).In full disclosure I was asked by Luxe Customer Service to write a review of this product in return for a free unit - but in no way does this change my opinion of this product.Before I purchased this bidet I read hundreds of the other reviews for this model and others. I decided to purchase the “Neo” self cleaning model #120.I installed the Neo 120 bidet on my elongated American Standard low flush toilet. The toilet itself is amazing but the seat that came with it is an absolute piece of cheap lightweight plastic junk. I thought for certain I would need a new seat. I must have lucked out because the Neo 120 installed perfectly with that seat and without the optional rubber seat-bumpers that Luxe sells. The installation was a total breeze. I also purchased the “Luxe Metal T-adapter with Shut-off Valve” even though some reviews weren’t as favorable. It shuts supply water off feeding the bidet but not the toilet. This very high quality shutoff gives added security of knowing the supply water into the bidet can be shut off quickly & easily when not in use. I live alone and do not want to come home to a flood. However many times I’ve forgotten to shut it off for a day or two and feel totally confident in the high quality of the bidet itself. I highly recommend this $15 option for peace of mind and its smooth and simple operation (1/4 turn inconspicuous lever). Working very slow the installation from start to finish took me about 25 minutes. No leaks anywhere.Upon finishing the installation I didn’t have to “go” but I sat down on the toilet and slowly turned on the water nozzle.... “Wow!” “Bull’s-eye!”The quality of the Neo 120 is excellent. The rigid plastic does not look or feel cheap. The metal braided hoses (all supplied) are high quality. The internal ceramic valves work perfect (as opposed to rubber seals/”O” rings). I bought the less common white color and the device has a “smooth & clean” design. The first couple weeks it stuck out like a sore thumb on the toilet, especially the metal braided hose that feeds the unit – but after 2 months I’ve gotten used to it and hardly notice it.Now I’ll review the actual use of this bidet (after using it for at least 2 months).Like others have mentioned, for the first few weeks I experimented a little bit with moving around ever-so-slightly on the seat for full “cleaning & aim” of the “entire area”, slowlyyy turning on the nozzle to avoid getting blasted to hard, turning on the self-cleaning feature first to remove some of the initial force of water blasting out, and using the self cleaning feature. Now that I’m a pro user after a couple months here are my thoughts:- First and foremost, you will never have to “fear” or more accurately “dread” going to the bathroom again!- I considered one of those hand held units that look like a kitchen sink spay. I am very glad I didn’t because this one is much easier to use and by design more efficient.- With the exception of a shower you will never feel so clean and refreshed down there. Toilet paper is ancient and unpopular in many areas of the world. I now hate to go the bathroom somewhere else and use TP. Your use of TP will be *greatly* reduced. As another reviewer somewhere said about using TP, “it’s like using toilet paper to clean up peanut butter off your sidewalk; as opposed to blasting it away with an outdoor hose and nozzle!”- I feel cold water only is ample for the vast majority of folks. I would not want the electrical and plumbing complexities of a hot water hook-up. I love the simplicity of this model. The cooler water is refreshing. I do not think winter will be a problem, if anything, maybe only first thing in the morning if you must go.- Many people mention the pressure is too forceful and there isn’t enough change when they use the variable water-force control knob. I do not feel this problem. In general bidets must have good force to adequately clean. But…It does take a little getting used for sure. And if you’re careful enough with the control knob you can surely adjust the pressure. Some reviewers said if it’s to forceful to first turn on the self cleaner to “take away” some of the pressure, and then slowly open the control knob. Others have said you can adjust the pressure by turning down the optional Luxe water shut off valve – which I installed but haven’t tried that yet as I don’t see the need.- The self-cleaning option seems to work well at cleaning the nozzle, although honestly it doesn’t get dirty. I’ve only used it about 2 or 3 times so far. For the extra ten bucks I feel it’s worth it and nice to have if you need it. It helps in cleaning the back area of the bowl if need be.- Cleaning the toilet the traditional way with brush and cleaner takes a *tiny* bit more patience. Just have to be careful going around back of bowl where the nozzle cover is. My toilet actually stays much cleaner now because after using the bidet I flush and then take a very small towel and wipe away any water that my hit the rim or underneath the seat(s). By drying off this water the toilet is always clean. Please note, this water I wipe off the rim/seat is NOTTTT dirty water…It is ordinary clear clean water; overspray only. Depending on how long the bidet runs for or how much you may slightly move on the seat the amount of overspray varies – many times there isn’t any at all.- Some bidet washing's will be quicker than others (depending on your movements). When done you will find yourself using TP to double-check your cleanliness and if the bidet is used properly you will be astonished at how clean you are. Wow again.- Reviewers have different ways of “finishing up” but my preferred choice (for the most part) is “pat-dry” with a few small pieces of TP and for those occasional times where more drying is needed after that pat-dry a second time with a very small towel (its just water, clean water) and then drop in the laundry hamper.- No more pain, no more soreness, no more rash/hemorrhoid, no more feeling “not so clean”, no more still feeling full (see below), no more anything bad. All good!I’m just about done here and I saved one of the best features for last. It’s a “hidden” feature and I found it quite accidentally. First let me say: 1) I have never had an enema and 2) After I bought this I found out a friend of mine has a bidet with a variable control knob like this one but on his highest setting it says “enema”. On the neo 120 it simply says “high” (we’re talking about the bidet water pressure/force here).Long story short, if you’re willing to experiment some you will find you can give yourself an enema and become “extra, extra clean internally” and at the same time avoid another bathroom trip again in the near-future. Hard to explain without getting to graphic but this only works with some of your movements; it’s usually those “multiple hard balls” that take forever and don’t want to come out – and – the more messier ones (With the "cleaner" movements there's nothing really left in you). You know, it's those bowel movements you know there’s more in there even though it took you forever and you worked so hard at trying to void is all out. With the water setting on “high” and a little practice you can - *when needed* - give yourself an enema and really, really, really get lots more out, all *very easily without any effort*! This saves multiple trips back into the bathroom in the near future to continue voiding.A short time ago the many benefits of bidets were unbeknownst to me. It’s time the United States joins so much of the world and jumps on this modern and sanitary device. The old fashioned toilet paper way of doing things unclean, unsanitary and yes, gross…haha.Do not delay – Buy one today!